{"id":9547,"date":"2021-06-20T06:00:40","date_gmt":"2021-06-20T11:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/?p=9547"},"modified":"2021-05-27T17:06:05","modified_gmt":"2021-05-27T22:06:05","slug":"the-most-needed-but-counter-intuitive-leadership-skill-self-compassion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wellness\/the-most-needed-but-counter-intuitive-leadership-skill-self-compassion\/","title":{"rendered":"The Most Needed, but Counter-Intuitive Leadership Skill: Self-Compassion"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Leadership has long been defined by the ability to take risks and learn from setbacks, and this is all the more vital now. You might be afraid that self-compassion will lower your standards and that you\u2019ll lose your ambition, however Kristin Neff\u2019s research shows that self-compassionate people have similarly high standards as those who lack self-compassion. However, those with high self-compassion are much less likely to be unduly and unproductively hard on themselves if they didn\u2019t meet their own standards.&#8221;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"embedly-card\" data-card-controls=\"1\" data-card-align=\"center\" data-card-theme=\"light\">\n<h4><a href=\"https:\/\/siyli.org\/resources\/the-most-needed-but-counter-intuitive-leadership-skill-self-compassion?utm_source=SIY+Main+List&#038;utm_campaign=e330937e6a-2017_09_Newsletter9_26_2017_COPY_01&#038;utm_medium=email&#038;utm_term=0_a48bf1a1ee-e330937e6a-178896669&#038;mc_cid=e330937e6a&#038;mc_eid=67fc2f7508\">The Most Needed, but Counter-Intuitive Leadership Skill:&#8230; | SIYLI<\/a><\/h4>\n<p>Let me confess that I was a reluctant convert to self-compassion. Before I really understood it, I thought it was soft, squishy, and something I didn&#8217;t need. But a few years ago, my colleague tricked me into reading the book Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff when I&#8217;d agreed to do a book club together, and let him pick the book.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/cdn.embedly.com\/widgets\/platform.js\" charset=\"UTF-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Leadership has long been defined by the ability to take risks and learn from setbacks, and this is all the more vital now. You might be afraid that self-compassion will lower your standards and that you\u2019ll lose your ambition, however Kristin Neff\u2019s research shows that self-compassionate people have similarly high standards as those who lack self-compassion. However, those with high self-compassion are much less likely to be unduly and unproductively hard on themselves if they didn\u2019t meet their own standards.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":9549,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/siyli.org\/uploads\/features\/Self-compassionate-Leadership-Steph-blog-blog-1.png","fifu_image_alt":"The Most Needed, but Counter-Intuitive Leadership Skill: Self-Compassion","footnotes":""},"categories":[8,52,3],"tags":[71,45,42],"class_list":{"0":"post-9547","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-business","8":"category-hr","9":"category-wellness","10":"tag-emotional_intelligence","11":"tag-leadership","12":"tag-wellbeing"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9547","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9547"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9547\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9990,"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9547\/revisions\/9990"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9547"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9547"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnstongroup.ca\/the-advisor-journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9547"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}